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Understand, Empathize, and Take Action!
Too many people are afraid to say the wrong thing, so they say nothing at all.
When it comes to conversations around gender, sexuality, and parenting queer youth, silence doesn’t protect anyone; it just leaves everyone confused, isolated, and unsure where they belong. Even with the best of intentions, misinformation and deeply rooted cultural norms can make it hard to move forward.
Your Audience Wants to Do Better. They Just Need a Guide.
I’m Tammy Plunkett—author, speaker, and mother of two transgender kids. I’ve sat where so many parents sit: full of love but also full of questions, worry, and fear. I’ve also worked with organizations, schools, and communities that want to be inclusive but aren’t sure where to start.
I’ve spoken on national TV, contributed to healthcare panels, and worked with countless professionals who want to be better allies but need guidance to get there. I bridge the gap with warmth, lived experience, and real-world strategies that help people build bridges, not walls.
What I Speak About:
Parenting Transgender Youth: From the moment your child comes out, everything changes. I walk audiences through the emotional journey, what support actually looks like, and how to stay connected through it all.
Understanding Gender Diversity: Unpack the LGBTQIA+ acronym, learn the language of inclusivity, and explore what it really means to affirm someone’s identity without shame, blame, or judgment.
Gender-Affirming Care: As increasing numbers of families navigate gender-affirming medical care, parents, educators, healthcare professionals, and organizations are being asked to understand complex information in emotionally charged and highly politicized environments. I offer clear, evidence-informed education about what gender-affirming care is and what it is not.
The Patriarchy Hurts Everyone: Yes, even men. I explore how rigid gender roles and outdated systems of power impact women, queer folks, and men alike, as well as what we can do to break the cycle.
Whether your audience consists of educators, healthcare professionals, HR leaders, parents, or community groups, they’ll walk away with greater empathy, useful language, and a clear path forward.
“Tammy provided an informative and updated presentation for cultural and gender inclusivity and sensitivity. She is an engaging speaker, blending an appropriate amount of self-disclosure and audience engagement. She opened the eyes of our team to biases and ways we can be more inclusive. Tammy is skilled at difficult content and delivering it in a way that isn’t shaming, in fact, it is welcoming. I recommend Tammy Plunket for your organization’s cultural and sensitivity training. “
Your Audience Will Leave With:
- A deeper understanding of gender identity and how it intersects with daily life
- Practical tools for affirming and supporting trans and queer youth
- Permission to ask honest questions without shame
- The motivation to move from performative allyship to meaningful change
Let’s Bring This Conversation to Your Stage
Ready to create a braver space for this meaningful conversation?
Let’s discuss how I can tailor a talk to your audience.
“Tammy speaks from the heart in a way that is captivating and engaging. The information is informative and useful, but with her authentic and inspiring storytelling and empathy, she gives us so much more.”
“I was delighted to have Tammy speak at my event. Her talk about the impact her transgender son had on her life was heartfelt and engaging, and you could see the impact it had on the audience immediately. Tammy is a gifted storyteller who will leave a life-changing mark on your audience.”
“Tammy is great at crafting inspiring speeches that inform her audience. She is charming, authentic, and a great teacher.”