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Here are some pieces of advice for a mom whose chi

Here are some pieces of advice for a mom whose child's best friend is transgender:
Educate yourself: It is important to educate yourself about transgender issues so that you can better understand and support your child's friend. Might I suggest reading books like Beyond Pronouns, attending one of my workshops or seminars, and seeking out resources from organizations that serve the transgender community (Links in bio)
Support your child: It is important to support your child as they navigate their friendship with their transgender friend. This may include listening to their concerns and answering any questions they may have.
Be an ally: Show your support for your child's friend by being an ally. This may involve using the pronouns and name that the friend prefers and speaking up if you hear someone else using the wrong pronouns or name or making derogatory statements about gender diversity.
Respect the child's privacy: It is important to respect the privacy of your child's friend and not share any personal information about their gender identity or transition without their permission.
Offer support: If your child's friend is going through a tough time or facing discrimination because of their gender identity, offer your support and let them know that they are not alone. Studies show that LGBTQ youth who report having at least one accepting adult in their lives were 40% less likely to report a suicide attempt in the past year.
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#parentsoftransgenderchildren #parentsoftranskids #parentsoftransgenderkids #beyondpronouns #allyship #allyshipisaverb #lgbtq #lgbtqpride #transgender #transgenderally #genderpronouns #usingpronouns #howtobeanally

As the parent of transgender children, I know all

As the parent of transgender children, I know all too well the overwhelming amount of learning that comes with understanding gender diversity. I am here to help educate allies in a way that is open to beginner's mistakes.
If you are looking for support in your journey with transgender children in your life, schedule a call with me.
Link is in bio.
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#parentsoftransgenderchildren #parentsoftranskids #parentsoftransgenderkids #beyondpronouns #allyship #allyshipisaverb #lgbtq #lgbtqpride #transgender #transgenderally #genderpronouns #usingpronouns #howtobeanally

How many of us lay in bed at night staring at the

How many of us lay in bed at night staring at the ceiling (or our cell phones) desperately worried about what's the next right step to take with our trans youth?
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It might sound silly but one of the compliments I've loved the most from working with a mom of a non-binary child a few years ago was that she's finally sleeping through the night again. We love our kids and we want the best for them.
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Knowing that we are on the right path is a gift -- a gift you get when you have a coach and mentor walking along side you on this journey.
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Check the link in my bio to schedule a call with me.
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#parentsoftransgenderchildren #parentsoftranskids #parentsoftransgenderkids #beyondpronouns #allyship #allyshipisaverb #lgbtq #lgbtqpride #transgender #transgenderally #genderpronouns #usingpronouns #howtobeanally

From school boards to extracurricular groups to so

From school boards to extracurricular groups to social services providers, if you interact with youth or families and need to understand the youth or the parent and caregiver’s perspective of raising a trans child, I am here to help.
It can be as simple as a Lunch and Learn session on topics such as:
➡️ Defining Transgender: Answering your biggest questions – What is gender diversity? How can a child be transgender? What do we need to do first?
➡️ Social Transitions: Supporting a gender-diverse youth and their family from the start by using affirming language, what information you can share and anticipating the stress the family experiences.
➡️ Trans Health Care: Looking at the next steps for youth; what are hormone blockers and cross hormones and how this would affect your organization. Discover the international scientific standards of care.
Or we can do a deeper dive into your organization's policies and protocols when interacting with youth and gender diversity.
I start with a Gender Welcoming Assessment to understand how you currently work with gender-diverse youth, we review your organization’s work culture, conduct one-on-one interviews with key stakeholders, and review your current policies.
Then I offer Staff Training where we work to align an up-to-date approach with your organization’s values to ensure the seamless integration of inclusive principles using a blend of scientific studies, lived experience and community resources.
And finally, we Consult on Policy, where we develop a strategic direction and workable policies to ensure we help your organization move forward on your gender-affirming journey.
For more information on how we can work together, please reach out!
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I hear it all the time, "I am so afraid of saying

I hear it all the time, "I am so afraid of saying something wrong that I say nothing at all. But I also know that it's rude and dismissing to clam up! What do I do?" I truly feel that this is part of my purpose.
I am here to help educate allies in a way that is open to beginner's mistakes because I am removed enough to not be hurt by yet another microaggression wound those mistakes can cause. If you are sincerely looking to be more informed you're in the right place.
As the parent of transgender children, I know all too well the overwhelming amount of learning that comes with understanding gender diversity.
Today, I help other parents, caregivers and organizations that interact with youth and families understand how they can affirm the youth in their lives. The goal is happy children, connected families, and a strengthened community.
Follow the link in my bio to schedule a call!
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#parentsoftransgenderchildren #parentsoftranskids #parentsoftransgenderkids #beyondpronouns #allyship #allyshipisaverb #lgbtq #lgbtqpride #transgender #transgenderally #genderpronouns #usingpronouns #howtobeanally

I have found where I will be taking all my Calgary

I have found where I will be taking all my Calgary coffee meetings from now on!
Thank you @thestorywarrior for introducing me to @bakeographycafe Great location, great food and great views!
#bakeography #yyceats #womeninbusiness

Jen reached out because she was initially overwhel

Jen reached out because she was initially overwhelmed with her child's disclosure... as many parents do. She was a champion to her young adult child.
If you're curious about how I can work with you
one-on-one or in a group as a life coach for parents of trans children, schedule a complementary call. Link is in Bio.
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#parentsoftransgenderchildren #parentsoftranskids #parentsoftransgenderkids #beyondpronouns #allyship #allyshipisaverb #lgbtq #lgbtqpride #transgender #transgenderally #genderpronouns #usingpronouns #howtobeanally

The go-to resource for parents with trans or gende

The go-to resource for parents with trans or gender-questioning children, authored by the parent of a trans child. Buy Beyond Pronouns anywhere books are sold.
If your child or teen recently told you they are transgender, non-binary or genderfluid, you’re bound to have questions. You may wonder how best to support your child’s transition and doubt whether you are making the right decisions.
When her son came out as transgender, Tammy Plunkett had the same worries. In Beyond Pronouns, she shares her candid experiences learning to navigate her child’s transition and provides clear and practical guidance to help you do the same.
She deals with many frequently asked questions, including:
– Is this a phase?
– Why not wait until they’re an adult?
– How do I tell others my child is gender-diverse?
– Where do we start a child’s transition?
Offering gentle guidance through the first 100 days and beyond, Tammy uniquely addresses the need for parents to be supported so they can best care for their child. You will find ways to face common fears, have important conversations with your child, be a good ally and much more, with age-appropriate approaches that aim for a happy and connected family.
Click the link in bio to order your copy.

I have been around other parents of transgender ch

I have been around other parents of transgender children just like myself for over six years—from peer-led support groups to coaching clients and consulting with organizations. I made these mistakes. I am by no means pointing fingers. And I have seen how these mistakes hurt youth when their closest ally unknowingly messes up.
Read this list with a gentle heart. # 3 is very important, and you might want to read it twice.
This isn’t a list to point out what we do wrong; it’s meant to show how we can help our uniquely wonderful kids.
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#parentsoftransgenderchildren #parentsoftranskids #parentsoftransgenderkids #beyondpronouns #allyship #allyshipisaverb #lgbtq #lgbtqpride #transgender #transgenderally #genderpronouns #usingpronouns #howtobeanally

Where the air gives me life. #kcountry

Where the air gives me life. #kcountry

The go-to resource for parents with trans or gende

The go-to resource for parents with trans or gender-questioning children, authored by the parent of a trans child. Buy Beyond Pronouns anywhere books are sold.
If your child or teen recently told you they are transgender, non-binary or genderfluid, you’re bound to have questions. You may wonder how best to support your child’s transition and doubt whether you are making the right decisions.
When her son came out as transgender, Tammy Plunkett had the same worries. In Beyond Pronouns, she shares her candid experiences learning to navigate her child’s transition and provides clear and practical guidance to help you do the same. She deals with many frequently asked questions, including:
– Is this a phase?
– Why not wait until they’re an adult?
– How do I tell others my child is gender-diverse?
– Where do we start a child’s transition?
Offering gentle guidance through the first 100 days and beyond, Tammy uniquely addresses the need for parents to be supported so they can best care for their child. You will find ways to face common fears, have important conversations with your child, be a good ally and much more, with age-appropriate approaches that aim for a happy and connected family.
Click the link in bio to order your copy.
#BeyondPronouns #BeyondPronounsBook #parentsoftranskids #parentsoftranschildren #parentsoftransgenderchildren #parentsoftransgenderkids #transgender #pronouns

As rough as things had been on that transition rol

As rough as things had been on that transition roller coaster with Mitchell, the ride seems rougher now with Rose. Is it because I’ve had several years of easy time with Mitch? Is it because being a trans woman is that much harder than being a trans man? And how much does personality play into how each trans person deals with life?
Long story short: I am utterly drained from this rollercoaster ride! Can you relate?
Can you also relate to being tired of all the well-meaning advice from friends suggesting you “take care of yourself” or “focus on yourself” or that ever-elusive to be defined practice of “self-care”?!
Because it is always my goal to help parents a few steps behind me on this path, here are some of the practices I have put into place to help relieve the stress of caring for a transgender child. Read more at the link in my bio.
#Trans #Transgender #TransLiberation #TransHealth #nonbinary #genderexpansive #gendervariant #TransgenderPride #TransAwarenessMonth #TransgenderSupport #TransIsBeautiful #beyondpronouns #beyondpronounsbook #parentingtransgenderyouth #parentingtranskids #parentsoftranschildren #parentsoftransgenderchildren #parentsoftransgenderkids #pronouns #protecttranskids #protecttranslives #TransIsBeautiful #genderdiversity #nonbinary

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